“One father is worth more than 100 teachers in schools” – George Herbert
There is a story, about a father who has been separated a long time with his son. For some reason, the boy ran away from home and his father searched for months without success. Finally comes the idea of ??the father, to put an ad in the newspaper, the newspaper of the greatest and well-known as the Capital. The sound of the ad: “Pato dear, meet me in front of this newspaper office, at 12 noon this Saturday. All is I forgive, I love you son “. Then the day arrived in the area, there were 800 people called Pato gather to seek forgiveness from a very loving father.
Data from the statistics say that people who grow up without a father’s love will grow with behavioral disorders, suicidal tendencies and become a ruthless criminal. Approximately 70% of inmates with a life sentence is the person who grow up without fathers (without the emotional closeness of his father).
There are 2 important things the secret of success of a father who could be handed down to his son. What is it?
1. Lessons For Survival. Father we will learn about a very complex subject about survival. Why is complex, because a lot of things that need to be in the “case” stability in life. In the family, how fathers play in the family, treating our mother – who would we duplicate samples and to our spouses. Helping encouraging children if there is a problem – we will do well later on our children (remember there is no school of parenting, we simply imitate what our parents did to us). Economic life of the family, how the father role in meeting the needs of the family. In terms of survival we will learn from a father.
2. Career problems. This one is important if we want to be successful financially and career, then improve our relationship with the father (for the already large) for the young father, berelasilah well with your child. Why? Of a father, will be “downgraded” career skills and gain convenience in a career. Remember the first point, we basically learned in matters of survival and a father’s work is a “money machine”. Relations between father and son will help the child to reap success in the future when he entered the world of work.
Many of my clients and the relationships ruined relationship with his father for a long time, and with all humility started a new relationship and forgiveness then fortune also changed. Besides, the prayer of a father for his son like a “turbo” for the success of a child. Even prayer really done a father, a child is able to change careers far beyond his father’s career. Many cases occur in my therapy room, dead-end jobs just need to make it up to her father. Easy is not it?
The figure of a father is a very important figure in an age now. Because many children who have lost a father figure and a father seeking attention by doing what we call “mischief”.
“I did it all for the family” is the classic answer which appears in the mouth most fathers, “I work for anyone if it was not for the family”, but what often happens is the victim families. I wish the best for the family but the family was victim later confusion and future parents, why family all really chaotic, “one where?” Yes of course, you all know where the fault lies, not.
A human being, will have a maximum of life if “he’s forgiven and to forgive.” This is the basis. For those of you a father, would you forgive the child and apologize to the child for his good future dikehidupan future? And your own father as a father would be very maximum for families and the environment around you.
Fathers, you are sorely missed and needed your children for lunch in her future life. Do not spend the entire energy and time on the job, so time at home is just residual energy and sat down to watch tv or read the paper. A child needs a hug and ears of her father to hear, understand what is told of the child.
Teach the truth about morals and manners, and of course his father would not regret later in adult life the child will practice the discipline of the father.