A lot of people say do not be too often carrying children. It is believed to have a negative impact for children, which can make a child spoiled. Is this true?
In the first three months of life, babies are very dependent on their parents. Because he can not speak, he could only cry if you feel uncomfortable (hungry, thirsty, wet diaper). He will also cry if need touch. Really want your child close to her parents.
In a German study, get the fact that infants whose mothers were slow to react or not react at all to the needs of her child, will make baby cry half hour longer than the infants who had mothers who immediately reacted. Closeness between mothers and infants encourage children to grow properly. If you include a direct maternal cradling and stroking your baby when it cries, you have done a good job. Of research in Germany was also said you have to meet the basic needs of the baby will be a physical touch. Your actions while holding your baby, it heals the baby from hunger, cold, and apart from the trauma of the experience of the mother. If you think that the separation would make it self-sufficient, it will make the baby stress. In these conditions only a slight endorphin hormone produced in the brain of the baby. Though these hormones that encourage a sense of happiness. And unique, when you are holding the baby, hormones direct endrofin increased.
You are not entirely correct to assume every time the baby cries you must immediately carry her, so you do not have time to do anything else. After the baby is aged 4 and 5 months, babies are more conscious of what is happening around him. ability to be much better. Her eyes become brightened when see you approaching. Cries Leih also be recognized. You will be able to distinguish the difference crying because of hunger or boredom. Eventually you will know each other’s needs. It is time you start to teach self-reliance. The trick is to not spoil when communicating with the baby screaming and crying. If the baby is not crying because of hunger or not in the mood to change diapers in the middle of the night, immediately approached, but do not directly carry. Whom he spoke with said that cliff. Ask what happened, belay gently, and wait a few moments. Maybe he will go back to sleep well. If not, pick her up and calm.
Babies need to feel comfortable at the beginning of his life. There are some who argue that children should be able to wait for his mother, so he could whine all the time and met all his needs. React quickly to provide comfort for the baby is not the same as spoiling. Helpless infants require quick reaction from you to help servive. Felt a sense of security that the basis of trust and love. With basic needs such as while in the womb, the baby feel satisfied so intertwined confidence in you. He sure has the support to grow as her own personal.
A research has shown that the response given to infants aged 6-8 months to give them a sense of security, so that they become more confident, ready to explore, and learn. They will grow more independent pre-school age when compared to other babies of parents who are used to being ignored. Babies will also learn patience if you tolerate his behavior everyday. Therefore, before 4 month old baby, you must have sufficient patience.