“A lot of people know what is good, talk about the goodness but do the opposite”
In the beginning man was born just took “personality” or personality. In general, there are four kinds of personalities. There are many theories that use different terms even use color, but the pattern remains the same. In general there are 4 personality, namely:
1. Choleric: This type is characterized by personal likes independence, assertive, fiery, like a challenge, the boss himself.
2. Sanguine: This type is characterized like the practical thing, always happy and cheerful, likes surprises, love the social activities and have fun.
3. Phlegmatic: This type of love characterized by collaboration, avoid conflict, do not like the sudden change, talk to a good friend, like a sure thing.
4. Melancholy: This type is characterized by love with the details, save anger, Perfection, like clear instructions, well-liked routines.
On top of this is the classical theory and the theory now is a lot of growing, and is still widely used as an assay to measure human potential.
Personality is not a character. Everyone has a different personality. Well from the 4 personalities, each personality has its drawbacks and advantages of each. For example Choleric types identical to those who speak “rough” and sometimes it does not matter, which is often difficult personal Sanguine invited to serious, often difficult invited Phlegmatic definite step and impress passive, melancholy stuck with a personal dilemma “yes” mouthfeel and “no” hearts, and they tend perfectionis in the details of life and that sometimes makes others quite the rush.
Every man can not choose his personality, personality is a gift from God the creator when we are born. And every person who has no definite personality weaknesses and advantages in aspects of social life and each individual. Easy yes, explanation.
Well, his character where? When each man learns to overcome his weaknesses and fix bugs and bring new positive habits it is called the character. For example, a pure Choleric but very polite in expression and instructions to others, a Sanguine able to bring himself to take seriously in a situation that requires calmness and focus attention. That character. Character education is the provision of views on various types of life values, such as honesty, intelligence, and other concerns. And that is the choice of each individual needs to be developed and cultivated, from an early age (ideally).
Character can not be inherited, the character can not be bought and character can not be exchanged. Character must be consciously developed and built day by day through a PROCESS that is not instant. Character is not something innate that can not be changed anymore like a fingerprint.
I noticed that many people with bad characters tend to blame their circumstances. They often claim that they raised the wrong way, financial difficulties, abuse of others or other conditions that make them today. It is true that in life, we have to face a lot of things beyond our control, but your character is not. Your character is always the result of your choice.
Know that you have the potential to become a person of character, upayakanlah it. Character, more than anything and will make you a person who has added value. Characters will protect everything you value in life.
Each person is responsible for his character. You have full control over your character, meaning you can not blame others for your bad character because you are entirely responsible. Developing character is your personal RESPONSIBILITY.